Can a married man love another woman

From the affair to the girlfriend: "I was the other woman - now I'm his girlfriend"

My friends supported me but also warned me. My family just wanted me to be happy they worried that I would always be second choice. But my heart already knew then that it had found its partner and after all the discussions, it realized that this man knew everything about me and loved me for that very reason - sometimes despite everything.From then on, we were the couple with the secrets. The couple you never wanted to be. The couple who have to make a phone call very early in the morning or very late in the evening so that nobody notices.As if dating wasn't hard enough for normal couples, we were Catholics AND work colleagues AND he was married. We practically combined everything that shouldn't be done.

They said things behind my back that made me sad even though I knew they were true. It wasn't nice to have to justify our relationship over and over again in front of people who shouldn't have been allowed to interfere in my affairs at all.

But as lovers are, we just ignored everything around us and only had eyes for each other. John told his wife that he wanted a divorce and looking back it was the easiest and most peaceful breakup I've ever seen. They shared the money and the furniture, they agreed on the dogs. And on the morning of September 11, 2001, in a small New Jersey courthouse, a judge officially terminated their marriage amid news of the terrorist attack on the World Trade Center in New York. It was a day of endings and new beginnings.